As photographers, many of us are stirred by light, beauty, movement and form.  We begin photographing friends, siblings, and models, only to realize that somehow we are not enabling our subjects to reflect the emotion and story we feel back into the frame.

Over the past few years I have learned that how we communicate to our subjects deeply matters.  Only on a foundation of trust can you enable your subject to reflect truth and beauty, and trust is built through words, humor, and humility.  I’d love to share a bit more about how these three traits have enhanced both my artistic skills and the experience I enjoy with my subjects.

Words.  Photography serves as a constant reminder to me that our words are more powerful than we ever will know.  We can truly “breath life” into those around us, simply by choosing to encourage and speak joy into them.  When on a photo shoot, I actively look for ways to connect to my subjects- relating to them on subjects that are important in their world.  I also strive to continually uplift them- making sure they know they are doing things right and look beautiful.  The right words spoken on a photo shoot can lend a new self perception to your subject- and this will translate as confidence and beauty in your photographs.

Humor.  Humor is a wonderful equalizer.  It levels the playing ground on a photo shoot-allowing you to show your subject that vulnerable, goofy side of who you are.  Hidden tension or worry noticeably leave the body after a good laugh.  Get your subject truly, genuinely laughing and you will find yourself amazed at the personality and life that flows forth. I personally love to use self depreciating humor- yes, that’s right- I make fun of myself!   This also comforts the person in front of my lens- they may feel insecure or self conscious, and by using humor to bring to light my own weaknesses and gaffes, I can quickly communicate that we are all okay just as we are.

Humility.  In the age of self phone photos and endless selfies, it’s easy to forget that creating a portrait is deeply connected to our soul.  Our sense of self and identity are all tied to our physical appearance in some way- for some more than others.  As photographers, we have the honor of reflecting back some sort of truth about our subject. Maintaing a heart of gratitude and approaching each person that steps in front of our lens as the unique individual they are provides a wide open vision into their true character, strength and beauty.  Creating art as a reflection of individual identity is a true privilege of the photographer.